2. He lives in complete filth.
“I took one look at his gross room and didn’t want him to touch me anymore.” If you live in a room that hasn’t been cleaned for a long time, she will be disgusted by you and your living conditions. At minimum, do your laundry and take out the trash so that your room doesn’t smell. If you put some effort into maintaining a habitable condition, she will likely help you tidy up the rest.