The 9 Dates Your Japanese Girlfriend Doesn’t Want to Have

3. A date with no particular plan.


“He came totally unprepared and asked me if there’s somewhere I wanted to go.” You neglected to plan your date and ended up wasting your time with her. If you’re the type who likes to go along with what she wants, at least have some suggestions in mind so that you won’t appear indecisive. Don’t be lazy and dump all the decision-making on her. Women appreciate men who can take the initiative and show them a good time.