2. You always want to carry her bags.
Some guys believe that carrying all of their girlfriend’s belongings, from her purse and shopping bags to her jacket, is a demonstration of kindness. People find it off-putting when a guy is carrying items that women can easily carry themselves. If your girlfriend cares about how she appears in public, she might think, “My boyfriend is pathetic.” Let your girlfriend have her way if she declines your offer to hold her things.