3. You bump into her in town without knowing her schedule.
There’s certainly something serendipitous about bumping into each other in the middle of nowhere, especially if you decided to go there at the last minute. “If I see him at university, I don’t think anything of it, but if I see him out of town, I feel a special connection,” claims one Japanese woman in her late teens. Running into her during vacation or at a small local event will have a similar effect. The more unusual and unpredictable the circumstances are, the more strongly she’ll feel about you and the relationship.