9. “We don’t have to do it today” and show her you’re not desperate
“It would make me feel relieved that I don’t have to force myself to lose my virginity.” Some Japanese girls feel more at ease when they know they’re not being forced to do anything they don’t want to do. If she seems so uncomfortable that she doesn’t want to do it, control your need and tell her you can do it another time. She will like and respect you even more.