9 Phrases to Avoid When Having Sex with a New Japanese Girlfriend for the First Time

7. “I don’t have to wear a condom, right?”


“I can understand if we’re in a serious relationship, but I can’t believe he’d bring it up during our first time together.” With a new partner, wearing a condom isn’t just good manners, it also communicates that you are serious about protecting yourself and your partner from infections and pregnancy. Pressuring her for condom-free sex the first time makes her feel like you are only interested in your own pleasure, and may ruin the moment altogether.