9 Things Boyfriends of Japanese Girlfriends Need to Help Each Other Grow

4. Don’t tie each other down, and make time for yourself


“My idea of an ideal relationship is one that lets me and my partner pursue our interests so we can help each other learn something new.” Sharing your individual experiences can not only help you both learn but also help you strengthen your relationship bond—it’s like killing two birds with one stone! Don’t be so fixated on doing things together. You should focus more on the quality and not the quantity of your dates.