5. He was cool and collected when we had a fight.
“It was a heated argument and I wasn’t going to back down. He took the time to listen to me and he was very fair. Now I look up to him.” During the most unpleasant situation, she will find comfort in a person who can calmly extinguish the fire. If this relationship is important to you, the last thing you want to do is to fight fire with fire.