5. He’s all talk and no action.
“He’s been talking big for five years, like ‘My dream is to make it big in a band.’ But he hasn’t even gathered together any musicians.” “He says ‘I’m going to be on The World’s Billionaires list,’ but what is he actually going to do about it?” This is a typical problem for guys who like to talk big. Women tend to judge harshly guys who only talk. One reader said, “He always talks big, saying things like ‘I’m going to quit my job,’ but he doesn’t do anything to make a career change. He just accepts things as they are.” You girlfriend will get fed up if you repeat the same words over and over without any evidence or assurance, so try to make good on what you say.