8. She saw a side of you that she hasn’t seen before.
Sometimes, love sparks when a woman receives a kind gesture from a man who’s unlikely to show any emotion. “Usually, he doesn’t even let out a smile, but one day, he helped me carry boxes up three flights of stairs. I was dumbfounded and then captivated by him,” recalls one Japanese woman in her late teens. “Even when I don’t have any romantic feelings toward him, if he treats me nicely when we are alone, I get butterflies in my stomach,” another Japanese woman in her early 20s confides to us. Especially if you couldn’t care less about pleasing anyone else, she’ll be enchanted by your special treatment of her.