3. “That’s terrible… What can I do to cheer you up?”
First, recognize the unhappy situation she’s in right now, and offer her your unconditional help to make things better for her. “He didn’t question much, but he asked me if there was anything he could do to cheer me up. It was very refreshing for me,” one Japanese woman in her mid-20s commented, expressing appreciation for the comments she received. However, you should know that there’s not much anyone can do to make her feel better immediately following a break up, so give her some time before you offer your help.