4. She doesn’t want him to be pathetic, such as asking her to be understanding about his lack of experience.
Some Japanese women don’t appreciate their boyfriends emphasizing their “inexperience,” even if this is their first relationship. “I’m not his mother. He needs to man up,” stressed a woman in her 20s. Although some women may not want to be with an inexperienced guy and deal with his small relationship mistakes, you shouldn’t use your lack of experience as an excuse not to give your best.