8. You are always calm and collected.
“I got mixed up with my schedule and forgot our date. He said, ‘Things happen!’ and brushed it off,” remembers one Japanese woman in her late teens. In a relationship, small arguments and the occasional mishap here and there are unavoidable. In times of challenge, being able to stay calm and allowing her the time and space necessary to analyze the situation will help develop a healthy and long-lasting relationship. You don’t need to keep all of your emotions hidden, but remember to think before you react.