6. She can be herself in your presence.
“I feel fortunate to have someone I can put all my trust in. I think this is happiness,” describes one Japanese woman in her 20s. In a tight-knit society like Japan, it’s impossible not to worry about what others may think of you. If she’s the delicate type, then she is probably under constant pressure to put a good face on things. Let her unwind and drop the weight from her shoulders by providing her a relaxing environment when she’s with you. Let her be herself and, especially if she’s under pressure at work, let her vent for as long as she needs to.