2. You noticed right away when something was not right about her.
“I hid my illness from others, so when he noticed it, I was touched by his caring nature,” says one Japanese woman in her early 30s. If you are quick to notice that there’s something different about her, it’s an indicator of how closely you watch out for her and how well you know her. She’ll be moved by your swift action to take care of her. Every time you see a sign that’s out of the ordinary, share a few caring words with her.