Do you know any guys with less-than-average looks who are more popular with Japanese women than good-looking guys are? What is it that gives them the edge to compete, despite their less-than-stellar appearance? For this article, we asked Japanese women in their teens to 30s to tell us some subtle things guys with less-than-average looks do that make them so popular.
1. They listen intently to her problems and all of the little things she says.
Japanese women find it easy to open up to guys who are good listeners. “I love that he nods and actually listens to me. He doesn’t just pretend to listen,” explained a Japanese woman in her 20s. By regularly letting them know you’re there for them, the more likely women are to seek you out.
