It can be very difficult to understand when Japanese women want kindness in a relationship. Sometimes not being very nice can be seen as positive, while being too considerate can be frowned upon. It’s a pretty thorny area. We surveyed Japanese women and discovered nine times when a girl can feel disappointed in her man because “he’s just too nice and unsatisfying!”
1. When he agrees with every little whim
“It makes me feel like all he’s doing is spoiling me.” When her every little wish is granted, a woman can start to feel unstimulated in her relationship.