It’s very insensitive to say heartless things to your girlfriend, even if you don’t care what she thinks of you anymore. When you make it clear that you want to break up, don’t devalue your entire relationship. This time, we surveyed women to introduce “8 inappropriate and upsetting things guys say during a break up with a Japanese girl.”
1. Comparing her to a former girlfriend, like “It was better with my ex than it was with you”
“He’s so not over his ex.” Your girlfriend will feel used as a “rebound” when you compare her unfavorably with your ex. Instead of making judgmental comparisons, discuss the issues you faced in your relationship, and tell her something like “My feelings for you have changed.”
