Connecting with someone of the opposite gender can be difficult. It’s even more challenging when you want to convince someone you just met to go out for a drink with you. This time, we surveyed Japanese women to introduce “Qualities you need to make a Japanese woman want to go out for a drink with you when you’ve just met.”
1. Make her feel comfortable by being a good listener.
Japanese women will gladly spend more time with you over a drink if they feel comfortable talking with you. A woman in her 20s said, “It’s important that I feel good talking to him.” Japanese women enjoy talking to guys who know how to listen. React to what she says in order to show that you are listening, and ask thoughtful questions. Don’t try to solve her problems for her.
